Jenny read and completed Disclaimer Form, she has no medical conditions or is not on any kind of medication.

I asked her to be more specific as to who she particularly mistrusted at this time. She immediately said her boyfriend, I asked her to elaborate.

She said he lives in her house, he works full time, yet is quite content to take full advantage of her generosity, financial and otherwise. He makes little or no financial contribution to the relationship and lies continually as to his activities and whereabouts at any given time.

Recently he has been openly making and receiving text messages on his phone in her company, he claims it’s work related and refuses any further explanations, becomes abusive if she pushes the issue. She has continually told him to leave, but he just continues to return, causes a scene and bullies his way back in. She says he is extremely manipulative and she feels intimidated by him.

I asked her to describe how she felt after telling me all this. She said she felt helpless and could see no light at the end of the tunnel. I asked her when she felt most helpless recently and she said the previous night ( Monday).

She decided her Focus Phrase would be Monday night feelings of helplessness.

1. We located tender point Left shoulder.
2. Done R-A-R-P statement 3 times. "I accept myself completely and I am now willing to let go of this Monday night feeling of helplessness and all it’s uncomfortable limiting effects."
3. asked her to yawn, which she did.
4. measured M.I.L, full 10.
5. Did first round of tapping. We measured the M.I.L, she felt it had reduced to 8. Valerie said she liked this as she could see visible results. After another three rounds the problem had reduced to 0 (zero).

I got her to do the invoicing procedure. Hands over ears. "I have now let go of this Monday night feeling of helplessness forever on all levels of my being and through all times, past, present and future." three times. Got her to do Tummy Rub.

Jenny is a very practical woman and said she liked this method as she could actually see her problems reducing. (length of this session 1 hour). I asked her if she felt there was deeper underlying issues to her problems, she said she felt there was but couldn’t readily identify them. I suggested she could benefit from a hypnotherapy session to sort these problems, and she was very willing to explore this avenue of therapy.

LENGTH OF SESSION: 1 HOUR:

Jenny was quite eager to experience Hypnosis and was in a pleasant deep trance state within 10 mins. All my normal observation tests and personal requirements verified this. I regressed her back step by step to where she felt her issues of mistrust began. She had been very close to her father who had passed away seven years ago, she experienced this as a great loss. Her mother was and still is quite distant, emotionally detached Her parents relationship wasn’t that close. Around this time her marriage was breaking down, her husband was unfaithful and left her in a bad financial position with sole responsibility for their daughter. The continuation of these problems left her feeling very lonely and isolated at this time in her life. At this point I instructed her to relax even further and go deeper, this was effortless for her.

I gave her very positive suggestions, regarding her own self esteem and taking responsibility for her own life and future actions. Obviously most of this was post hypnotic orientated to enhance her confidence. I brought her out of trance and of course took the usual procedure of making sure she was fully alert and aware.

We discussed how she felt at this point, she said she felt very confident, relaxed and less intense about her life, very optimistic.

She asked for a follow up session next week, because of how good she felt after this session Next session July 1st 2008. I gave her a hypnosis CD of positive affirmations to be used twice daily if possible until next session. This added greatly to her new feelings of confidence and she assured me she would use it diligently.

SECOND SESSION: JENNY : 1ST JULY 2008:

LENGTH OF SESSION; 1 HOUR 20 MINS:

Jenny had improved greatly since last session, she was using and enjoying the CD I gave her She said she felt very positive and secure and nothing of any significance was getting to her. Her boyfriend, she said was very confused, she has adopted a no nonsense attitude towards him and is getting on with her own life. In fact at the end of the current week she is going on holidays for 2 weeks with her friends and has told him not to contact her.

I asked her if there was anything she wished to work on in this session, she said no as all the problems she had previous week seemed to have dissolved. She said she would like to go back into hypnosis for a relaxation session because she enjoyed the previous experience so much.

Using my normal induction procedure, Valerie went under very quickly. I used a guided sea shore routine during which I gave her a post hypnotic suggestion to use so she could use self hypnosis to return to this level anytime she desired. After this session when she was fully awake I went through the CER procedure with her again so she knew how to use it for herself, if and when necessary for any reason.

I also made sure she could use the post hypnotic suggestion for self hypnosis, whish she could. Jenny was very pleased with her overall treatment and said she was very glad to have been referred as she felt she had benefited greatly.

Alan