Client 'A' is a twenty one year old man whom I have been treating mainly with shiatsu, and some Bach flower remedies as needed. He has responded well to this regime and his life has moved forward he has but never fully come to terms with his main emotional problem. This young man has been hooked on cannabis and alcohol since 15 and has spent most of the past six years in a haze. During this time he was a self confessed “ player “ with the ladies and consequently one of his conquests became pregnant.
Being only 17 when this happened, owing to his lack of maturity and
coping mechanisms he relinquished any responsibility toward mother and
child. He has never seen his son and both have moved away, (he does not
know where.) He was sent an email picture of his son at the age of 14 months but otherwise has no idea of what he looks like. He has tried unsuccessfully to trace them .Any attempts of contact via
mobile phone are rebuffed with the excuses about it being the wrong
number etc.
Since shiatsu treatment his cannabis habit has stopped, his alcohol
binges are infrequent but he feels that part of his life is missing. Having been anaesthetised for so long actually feeling his emotions and learning how to deal with them has been traumatic.
Client 'A' came for treatment where he discussed how he was experiencing nightmares. He had the same nightmare for three consecutive nights and they were leaving him an emotional and physical wreck. The dreams consisted of him chasing a child whom when caught was faceless. He awoke startled, sweating and shocked.
We discussed FREEWAY CER and he agreed to try it.
I explained the procedure and we practised a round of tapping ending
with a very reserved yawn. We discussed his feelings. I noted down the
focal words/phrases he wanted to use for several aspects of his
problem.
They were:
Horrible dream Saturday night
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10 |
| Confused |
8
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Hate Situation
|
7
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| Pining |
6
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| Heartache |
6
|
| |
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Horrible Dream - Saturday Night
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10
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Round 1
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7
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Round 2 - Less Horrible...
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3 |
During the next round a facial grimace as if in pain occurred. I
questioned A as to what was happening. He said that he felt lonely so
we took a mil reading and tapped on this.
Feeling lonely
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5 |
Round 1
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3
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Round 2 - Less feeling lonely..
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0
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We then carried out the invoicing procedure. At zero his should be, ‘I have now let go of feeling lonely, forever,
on all levels of my being and through all times past present and future.
Back to horrible dream
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3 |
Round 3 - Smaller horrible dream
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0
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I noticed that his yawns were becoming larger and he appeared more relaxed after each round. 'A' then used the ear cupping procedure saying it loudly and meaningfully. Don’t forget that when at zero you must say ‘I have now let go of etc etc’ and not as you state above I am now willing. This is incorrect for the invoicing procedure.
The next aspect was feeling confused
Feeling confused
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8
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Round 1
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3
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Round 2 - Less feeling confused
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1 |
Round 3 - Tiny feeling confused
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0
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We then carried out the invoicing procedure successfully.We then re-assessed the remaining aspects and found
Hate
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0
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| Pining |
2
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| Heartache |
2
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That’s good also the phrases are excellent except for the invoicing one.
I asked 'A' if he would like to continue with the remaining aspects to
reduce them to 0 but he said for now he was satisfied with the results. He said that he felt slightly muddled but felt that it was everyday
life causing this feeling and felt that he would keep feeling this way
until he managed to achieve his ambitions in life. We discussed how far he had come and that reaching his goals were
achievable given time and commitment. He has recently started an
engineering apprenticeship and is doing well. He acknowledged my suggestion that his son would not always be small and not to give up hope of meeting him in the future.
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